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| June 11, 2009 Remembering the Last 7 Years Remembering the Last 7 YearsBy Kimm and Dale Stammen, Westside Parents In an effort to not cry too much at the upcoming graduation, I’m writing down and sending you some memories which I think illustrate what Westside School has meant to me and my family these past seven years. Feel free to share them with whomever you think appropriate. When Emma was four, I walked in the front doors of Westside School. The office was overflowing with parents busy doing something with piles of papers, talking about what they were doing, laughing and bumping into each other. (The office was really small back then.) I said hello to someone and that I wasn’t there to help but to have a tour, and waited in a corner, trying to stay out of the way, until someone did eventually come and show me around. (The tour of the whole place consisted of five classrooms, one portable and about 90 kids. ) That first impression in the office of Westside, though it may seem unremarkable, struck me. This was a place where parents were not welcomed with a show of exuberance and given the grand tour, because parents were not visitors. They were a normal, everyday and vital part of the school. Another early memory of our Westside experience was our first teacher conference with Claudia. It was our first year in any school; we’d never had a conference with a teacher before, and I was frankly skeptical that someone could know much about my very quiet daughter in just a month. Claudia, in the conference, told us about Emma’s learning style, and that she listened very well and had a long attention span, which we’d already noticed. Then she described Emma as a girl who feels things deeply, and “holds them close.” And she made a gesture, two hands cupped together over her heart, her body hunched protectively around them. “That’s how she is, and she’ll open up more when she wants to,” said Claudia. I thought her comments impressive not just for their perception but for, I don’t know, the dispassionate caring and expertise with which she said them. I expect she knows all her students just as well. Though I think Claudia’s understanding of her students is exceptional, I have always found that all the teachers at Westside are not only willing, but eager, to listen to my comments and concerns, in a genuine desire to know and help one of their students better. I remember Emma’s first homework assignment, to draw a picture of where she was going to do her homework. Such a brilliant assignment! It forces the parents to make sure she has a place to do her homework. She drew a picture of her little purple desk, the pencils and crayons and the window and the chair, and got all excited and impatient for her first page of homework. And because each grade treated the doing of homework as a skill like any other, to be slowly expanded, now I barely know when Emma’s projects are due, because she organizes her work and plans out her schedule herself. A more recent memory illustrates one of the most important qualities of Westside. At a 5th grade presentation early this year, I was listening to a boy explain what he had learned about electricity. He said, “we got to make a coil, and attach a wire, and we got to make a switch...” Not, “we had to,” or “we did,” but “we got to.” A small thing, a choice of word, but in it there is a world of difference. Between the schools I grew up with and unfortunately many today, where kids do what they have to do and get out, and a place where learning is fun, a natural result of curiosity, and a privilege kids actually appreciate. I remember when Jo Ann and two other candidates came to speak to the WPO about why they should be hired as new Head of School. I don’t remember the other two candidates, but I do remember the open and clear way Jo Ann spoke, her understated energy that seemed a good match for our school, and the way she answered my question about how much the school should grow (as much as the parent community decided it should). I also remember all the nodding as the parents left the gym, and that someone said “that’s the one.” I also remember when the school introduced the Second Step program.
I was skeptical again! I expected a school to teach academic skills, but leave the morals and the behavior to the parents, please. It helped a good bit to discover that the ideas of Second Step matched our ideas about how conflicts should be resolved. More than that, it gave a voice and framework to what was already and still is the expectation at Westside: that people behave with respect for each other. It may not always happen, but it’s expected. I see as I finish writing this that it’s not only my daughter who has grown an incredible amount in the past seven years. Westside has changed so much since we enrolled! Twice as many children, a new Head of School, new programs, and yes, a bigger office. Perhaps that’s why I fear I’ll have difficulty not crying at graduation: I’m not just celebrating the growth and achievement of the child at the center of my life, I’m also celebrating the school that grew and changed with her. And like my daughter, managed to stay as wonderful as when she was small. Perhaps when Claudia described Emma as “feeling things deeply, and keeping them close,” she described her parents as well. That’s how we are, but let me now decide to open up and say: This place, the teachers, staff and parents, have meant a lot to us. Thank you. Remembering the 5th GradeBy Steven Whiting, Chinese Teacher Da Jia Hao! I would like to use this final Chinese Update of the 2008-09 school year to express my congratulations to the Fifth Grade class on their graduation from Westside School. It’s hard to believe that I have taught them Mandarin Chinese for three years. I remember when I first entered what at that time was Mr. B’s Third Grade class. The group energy was palpable. At times it seemed like trying to keep the lid on a boiling pot. More than once Mr. B had to step in to “rescue” me as I struggled with controlling the classroom. I often wondered if this group was going to drive me crazy before I got a handle on them. But as the months went by and I began to understand the kids (and they hopefully began to understand me), I came to realize what a truly special group they are. Their aptitude and enthusiasm never ceased to amaze me. They picked up concepts and vocabulary quickly. I feel that we really accomplished a lot in our three years together and for my part I have had a lot of fun teaching them and watching them grow. The faces changed somewhat over the years as some kids left and others entered the class. The new additions quickly began to fit in at their own pace and assimilated amazingly well so that the group dynamic was consistent. I have my own special memory of each of the Fifth Graders and I’m sure that having taught them will always remain one of the high points of my time at Westside School. My goal is to have as much fun and accomplish just as much with each of the groups of students that I teach at Westside School. The graduating Fifth Graders have set a high bar for all the classes that follow them to work toward. Once again I’d like to say Gong xi nimen (Congratulations to you!) on your achievement and Xie Xie (Thanks) for the happy memories. As you move on to middle school, I hope you will take happy memories of studying Chinese at Westside School. Best of luck in middle school! I will miss you all! Bai Laoshi Field Day - Everyone's a Winner!By Kate Petrich, WPO President A huge thank you to P.E. Enrichment Teacher Donna Jornlin and Field Day Chair Susan Oxholm for last Friday’s Field Day! Summer PlanningBy Renee Smith, 1st Grade Teacher As with all things, summer break is a mixed blessing. Its greatest strength (no school! schedule free!) is its greatest weakness, (No school!! No schedule!!) Children vacillate between euphoric freedom and debilitating boredom. And although school may disappear from a young student’s mind, it remains a concern for most parents. And so many families ask teachers, “What do you recommend we do at home this summer to help with math? Reading? Writing?” Having spent twenty six summers home with school age children, I am willing to give a little guidance. What follows are a few suggestions to consider: • Boredom is okay – usually they find their own groove. Am I going to follow my own advice this summer? I’ll let you know in September. For now, I feel better just writing it down. It’s a step in the right direction! Have a great summer! See you at the pool! Thank You Room Parents!By Sue Winter, WPO Room Parent Coordinator Please join the WPO officers in thanking all of our wonderful room parents! With their tireless efforts, they have organized field trips and class parties, kept all of us informed about Westside happenings, and made sure our teachers feel supported and appreciated. Thank you Room Parents for all you’ve done this year - you guys are great! This year’s room parents were: Nancy’s PreS/PreK - Christine Smith and Lindsay White And You Thought You Were Just Having Fun...By Kate Petrich, WPO President As you may know, the Westside Parent Organization (WPO) uses funds raised from Pizza Days, Movie Nights and Halloween Fest to fund various community building events and assemblies. So while you were banking coveted family time, enjoying popcorn at Movie Night, buying tickets for the Halloween Fest Fortune Teller, writing checks for your child’s Pizza Day pizza, and toiling as one of our venerable volunteers, you made it possible to have: • Assemblies: One World Taiko Drums, Ropeworks, and Chinese Acrobats (African Acrobats coming in the fall!) And as we mind our mission to “promote and support the academic, financial and social growth of Westside School,” we’re primarily committed to building community. However, if more funds are raised than needed, they become available to support the Westside teacher’s professional development beyond what Westside School already sponsors. This year with the combination of your enthusiastic participation and the prudent leadership of past years’ WPO Officers (we stand on their shoulders... thank you Carolyn Comick!), we’ve positioned ourselves to at least partially pay for: • PK Teacher, Claudia Ross-Weston to attend the UW Early Learning Conference on the cutting edge of child development research. And we’ve purchased a new car! Just kidding! On behalf of the WPO, thank you for making it all happen. Best wishes to you this summer, and we look forward to more fun next year! Bring Out Your Dead! Ink Cartridges and More!Monty Python here for the Fourth and Fifth graders who continue to work hard to get you to recycle any and all old ink cartridges, cell phones, video consoles, digital cameras, laptop computers, PDAs, IPods, even DVD movies. You can even call us and we will come get them from your house if you have too many and/or don’t want to store over the summer. Otherwise you can drop them in the plastic bin in the main building hallway. The kids will bundle them up and send them off to be recycled- and get a bonus check back that will go towards funding the 4/5’s Islandwood experience next year. Help our kids clean up our environment and raise funds at the same time. Any questions? Hallidie.haid@gmail.com. Thanks! Come in and drop it off over the summer. Office hours are from 9am-3pm (you may want to call ahead of time to make sure it’s not closed for lunch!) Make a Difference – VolunteerBy Lori Lieske, Westside Parent I was asked to share an exciting community-involvement project that our family has decided to commit to. As we rang in the New Year, we knew that change was abound and we wanted to demonstrate to our kids that giving back does not have to involve money; it can be just as meaningful to volunteer your time. I had heard about a government program called The Presidential Service Award, an award that recognizes individuals, families, and groups that volunteer a certain number of hours over a year or over a lifetime. As the volunteer hours accumulate, medals are awarded. For example, a Bronze medal is earned if kids volunteer 50-74 hours, young adults volunteer 100-174 hours or adults volunteer 100-249 hours. As the hours increase beyond these numbers, a Silver or Gold medal can be earned! We thought “how perfect!” Our kids can feel good about volunteering their time in the community and they can also set a goal to volunteer enough hours to earn a medal. The hardest part of this project was deciding where and when to volunteer. As I looked into our options, I found endless opportunities and many close to our home. We ended up choosing to volunteer at The Kenney Retirement Home because it was within walking distance to our house. Our idea was to host a game night, twice a month, for an hour each time. The volunteer coordinator was thrilled at the idea and very happy to have our entire family come be with the residents. So, every first and third Monday we go and play games or build a puzzle with our new extended family of grandmas and grandpas. After finishing our hour, we go home and log our volunteer time on our sheets and look forward to earning a medal. Now, this is a time commitment for our family, but we are volunteering together and having fun doing it. It’s a win, win, and it’s just one example of how an entire family can volunteer. Another idea that is equally important and easy to do is to take a ½ hour at the end of a sports game or day at the park to clean up garbage. (Be sure to wear gloves!) My kids are learning that The Kenney residents appreciate us being there and each week we gain a new grandparent! But the biggest lesson is that it doesn’t take a lot to make a difference!! To find out more about the Presidential Service Award, visit http://www.presidentialserviceawards.gov. This site also has additional links on volunteer opportunities close to your house. You may also check out these organizations: Children’s Hospital, Food Banks, Local YMCA (kids have to be a certain age though), Retirement Homes near you, REI (usually family friendly trail clean ups) and/or the West Seattle Blog or West Seattle Herald sometimes posts opportunities. Happy volunteering!
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